Me and My Wife

[trevorlawrence Profile]

Hi All,

My wife and I have been having some marrital problems lately. She feels that I am not showing her enough effection and love. My defense was I was always making sure that the cleaning and housework was done before she arrived home from work so that she would not have to worry about it after working a long 10 hour day at work. Then I realized that I was going about it in a way that she didnt recocnize that I was showing her love in doing this. So, lately I have been trying to tell her how much I love her and want to work things out because she felt that we werent getting anywhere in our marriage and was considering leaving. We have been talking about alot of things lately and at first I felt like she was pushing me away until last night when she told me that she loved me for the first time in quite a while. That made me feel great, but, and this is big, she recieves numerous text messages on her phone and this was nothing uncommon for her but all of a sudden all of these messages were a seccret. Its not that I didnt know who the messages were coming from it was the fact that I felt she was hidding something from me. So this morining I woke up early and looked at the messages on her phone. This was unable to happen in the past because any other time I looked the inbox and outbox would be empty. Now I realized that this was wrong because I was snooping but it just didnt make any since she had never hidden anything from me before. Also I did this while she was sleeping cause I figured this was the only time to look. Anyway when I looked at the messages on the phone not to my surprise there were several messages. When I read the messages I felt deeply hurt cause it sounded to me like this person was trying to move in on my wife. So out of anger I woke her up and began to question her, which I also figured out was the wrong thing to do. Long story short we got into an argument about this and in the end I realized that everything was harmless and I had interpreted it all wrong. Now I am in quite a pickle. Just when we start to make progress I questioned my trust for my wife and before she left for work this morning she asked me how we were going to fix me questioning my trust. To my dismay I had no answer for her. Now not only is she hurt from past issues here is a nothier one that we must try to work through. The only problem is I dont know where to start.

[pcpc18 Profile]

Do a barrel roll !

ihatebreakcore is becoming a 4chan like

[Feutus Lapdance Profile Website]

Saying I love jou is a good start. (only if jou mean it)

[S2K08 Profile]

too long did not read

[Draegg Profile]

that sucks man, hope everything works out!

[dfaultuzer Profile]

wait what ?

seeking marital counseling on a breakcore forum ?

[SweetPeaPod]

Dude.. straight up.
Don't be a Sucker.
If you don't trust her completely, there is a reason. Address it!
Sneaking to see what's going on is good and bad. it's not bad to be aware of that which is going on around you..... but don't let it overcome your being.
There is no point to be pissed off at someone for having someone else in their life. if they are gonna cheat, fucking so be it! Then they need to be in an open relationship i.e Swingers.... if this is not for you. Address matters, don't feel bad for your actions in a desperate situation. you have rights to a good life.
Be honest and let her know, if she wants to sneak around, then she'll most likely lose you. Her choice not yours.
Her choice to be honest.
Your choice to live in the dark.
Don't live in the dark........ it's a very sucky place.
peace

[producer_snafu Profile Website]

Do a barrel roll !

ihatebreakcore is becoming a 4chan like

you will never speak again of this website an nor will the rest of you

Also

just get a divorce, the minute i find out some punk is fliting with my non existing wife is when i ask her dad to loan me some money to file a divorce.

sounds more like yer still pussy whipped and never got over it.

by the way, if yer at home not supporting then maybe she should be flirting and finding a dude who will, and if this is not the case then , why is she not cleaning for you, she ever take consideration that maybe both you guys can participate in the cleaning?

2 cents!

[czar3030 Profile Website]

why is she not cleaning for you, she ever take consideration that maybe both you guys can participate in the cleaning?

Ive been with my girl 12 years and its completely a joint effort. (Joints help too by the way). I don't see it working out if you both can't be completely open with everything. None of this don't check my phone shit! Anything goes! Or just don't be tied down to someone if you cant be open and honest!

[thescythian Profile Website]

Hi All,

My wife and I have been having some marrital problems lately. She feels that I am not showing her enough effection and love. My defense was I was always making sure that the cleaning and housework was done before she arrived home from work so that she would not have to worry about it after working a long 10 hour day at work. Then I realized that I was going about it in a way that she didnt recocnize that I was showing her love in doing this. So, lately I have been trying to tell her how much I love her and want to work things out because she felt that we werent getting anywhere in our marriage and was considering leaving. We have been talking about alot of things lately and at first I felt like she was pushing me away until last night when she told me that she loved me for the first time in quite a while. That made me feel great, but, and this is big, she recieves numerous text messages on her phone and this was nothing uncommon for her but all of a sudden all of these messages were a seccret. Its not that I didnt know who the messages were coming from it was the fact that I felt she was hidding something from me. So this morining I woke up early and looked at the messages on her phone. This was unable to happen in the past because any other time I looked the inbox and outbox would be empty. Now I realized that this was wrong because I was snooping but it just didnt make any since she had never hidden anything from me before. Also I did this while she was sleeping cause I figured this was the only time to look. Anyway when I looked at the messages on the phone not to my surprise there were several messages. When I read the messages I felt deeply hurt cause it sounded to me like this person was trying to move in on my wife. So out of anger I woke her up and began to question her, which I also figured out was the wrong thing to do. Long story short we got into an argument about this and in the end I realized that everything was harmless and I had interpreted it all wrong. Now I am in quite a pickle. Just when we start to make progress I questioned my trust for my wife and before she left for work this morning she asked me how we were going to fix me questioning my trust. To my dismay I had no answer for her. Now not only is she hurt from past issues here is a nothier one that we must try to work through. The only problem is I dont know where to start.

I'll bet the dude railin your wife is hung like a horse. Have you noticed your wife being "looser" than usual? Shit, for that matter, does she even put out anymore?

Yeah, she's gettin serious action behind your back. Guarantee it.

I don't think I've ever seen a guy this gullible, who wasn't gettin two timed.

[djtheblade Profile Website]

Were your wife real, she'd be sucking my cock whilst listening to Rotterdam Terror corps.

[craigwhite110 Profile]

Even though you offered to work things out, she decided to move on-what is it worth to work on things if in the end and she might not ever trust you because you opposed her and questioned her. I i would be at your place I would do is I honestly told her that if I tell him that I forgive her then she in return need to be honest and loyal to me.

pedicab

[JonnyRotic Profile Website]

You should show her you care by raping her.

[shift decimal Profile Website]

Hold no disregard to paragraphing. Like not swearing, it will make people listen to you.